Reception - Speeches
Reception speeches are a cherished tradition, that offer a chance for the Bridal Party, Parents, and the Newly Weds to express their love, share memories, and offer well-wishes. Writing the perfect speech can be daunting, but with a bit of preparation and heartfelt reflection, you can deliver a speech that resonates with you and the Newly Weds.
Keep It Concise and Engaging
While it’s important to be thorough, remember to keep your speech concise and engaging. A rough guide is to aim for about 5-7 minutes just to ensure you hold the couple and guest attention and it doesn’t feel as though “it’s dragging on”.
Practice Your Delivery
Practice your speech several times to yourself to ensure a smooth delivery. This will help you feel more confident and relaxed. Reducing the likelihood of stumbling over your words and feeling overwhelmed.
Check in with Others
Sending through your speech to a few members of the Bridal Party can create ensure that your speech covers everything you’re wanting it to and is appropriate enough to deliver in front of the rest of the guest at the wedding.
Warm Introduction
Begin your speech by introducing yourself and your relationship to the couple “how you know them”. This helps set the context for your audience and eases you into the speech.
Example: “Good evening, everyone. For those who don’t know me, I’m [Your Name], the [Relation to the Newly Weds]. I’ve had the pleasure of knowing [Bride/Groom] for [number] years.”
Share Fond Memories
Recounting fond memories is an amazing way to highlight your relationship with the Bride, Groom, or both. These stories can provide insight into your connection and add a personal touch to your speech.
Example: “I remember when [Bride/Groom] and I first met in [provide context]. We instantly clicked over our shared love for [interest and/ or hobby]. One of our favourite memories together is when we [specific memory].”
Include Funny Stories
A touch of humour can lighten the mood and keep your guest engage. Sharing a funny story that reflects the personality of the Bride or Groom is a great way to do this while also keeping that personal touch.
Example: “One thing about [Bride/Groom] that always stands out is their sense of humour. Like the time we [specific memory]. We laughed so hard that day, [specific context].
Highlight Meaningful Gestures
Talking about meaningful gestures or character of the Bride or Groom adds depth and shows your admiration and respect for them individually and/ or together.
Example: “What I admire most about [Bride/Groom] is their [specific quality]. There was a time when they [specific memory], which truly showed their [quality].”
Offer Wishes for their Future
Extend your best wishes for the Newly Wed’s future together. This part of the speech can be heartfelt, focusing on the journey ahead and all the excitement that is to come.
Example: “As you embark on this new journey together, my wish for you is a life filled with [specific wishes]. May you continue to support and cherish each other through all of life’s ups and downs.”
Reflect on Their Relationship
Reflect on the relationship between the Bride and Groom, highlighting what makes their bond special, unique and will last a lifetime together.
Example: “Seeing the way [Bride] and [Groom] look at each other, it’s clear they share a deep and abiding love. Their relationship is built on [specific key aspects], and it’s truly inspiring.”
End with a Toast
Conclude your speech with a toast to the Newly Weds. This is a traditional and celebratory way to end your speech on a high note.
Example: “So, please could I get everyone to raise your glasses and join me in toasting to [Bride] and [Groom]. May your life together be filled with joy, happiness, and endless love. Cheers!”
Writing and delivering a Reception speech is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate the love and commitment of the Newly Weds. By including fond memories, funny stories and meaningful gestures you can create a speech that resonates with everyone and leaves a lasting impression. With these tips and tricks, you’ll deliver a memorable and touching speech that honours their special day.
